“I married Dana because after I went through therapy and I really worked on myself—I cut myself off from dating, and I went celibate. And I just was like, ‘I have so much love in my life. The next person who comes into my life in that way needs to add so much more than I already have.’” she recalled.

She continued, “I married Dana for multiple reasons. Obviously, I love him so much, but he was the first man to actually see me. He saw me, for Jordan, and who I am and all the things that I love and all my quirks and all my weird things and all my spilled drinks and all the things. He was the first person to see me and not have any preconceived notions about who I was. It was amazing because once we started talking, he got to know who I was, and I got to know him outside of this. It was just really incredible. He made me feel safe. He made me feel happy and comfortable.”

In a recent interview with T-Pain’s Nappy Boy Radio Podcast, the “No Air” singer revealed she had writer’s block.

“In terms of creativity, I had writer’s block from 2015 up until lockdown,” she said. “I would get into the studio, but I didn’t feel connected to anything.”

With the Derulo situation, and her label going bankrupt, she began her sabbatical in 2016 and met her husband shortly after.

“I took that sabbatical and really started to focus on myself. I was like. I have so much love in my life already that I don’t need anymore,” she said. “Whatever comes into my life next is gonna be a bonus and just be an addition to the amazing life I already have. Literally, God placed him on my doorstep, and we met, and we never stopped talking, and we’re about to celebrate five years this July.”